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Cathy Hainer 1961-1999
A
chronicle of cancer that moved a nation
Cathy Hainer (USA TODAY) |
ARLINGTON, Va. - Cathy Hainer, the reporter for USA TODAY
who inspired millions of readers with her breast cancer diary, died of the disease at a
northern Virginia hospice Dec. 14 (1999). She was 38. In her stories, she shared with
readers not only her physical battle with cancer and its treatment, but also her personal
life - buying a house, getting engaged - and her shifting outlook on life and death.
Contributions in her name will be used to establish the
Cathy Hainer Book Fund at the Swem Library, College of William & Mary.
Checks should be made payable to The Endowment Association,
College of William & Mary (earmarked for the Hainer Book Fund), and sent to: Associate
Vice President for Development, Box 8795, Williamsburg, Va., 23187-8795. |
Excerpted
from Cathy's last entry in her diary, Nov. 11-19, 1999
"I take solace in thinking about
something a friend recently showed me. This parable was found on the body of an American
Jewish soldier, Col. David Marcus, who was one of those who helped to form the first army
of the state of Israel"
"I am standing upon the
seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails in the morning breeze and starts for
the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength and I stand and watch her until at
length she is only a ribbon of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with
each other. Then someone at my side says, 'There! She's gone!'
"Gone where? Gone from my
sight - that is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she
left my side, and just as able to bear her load of living freight to the place of
destination. Her diminished size is in me, not in her, and just at the moment when someone
at my side says, 'There! She's gone!' there are other voices ready to take up the glad
shout, 'There! She comes!' And that is dying." |
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